(Once a month, I invite Sean to take over the blog and write a little note to our kids. I love that he is willing to leave little nuggets of wisdom for them to look back on when they are older!
Once I heard of a principle called H.A.L.T. H.A.L.T. stands for hungry, angry, lonely, tired. Strange factoid to start a letter with isn’t it? I’m bringing this up because it has been a loooooonnng week. Everyone in this house has been sick except me, and Daddy is tired.
Basically, what this principle says is to not let yourself become one of the things. Kind of hard to avoid being tired when you have three-year-old quadruplets, especially when they are sick.
Daddy tries to be calm and cool all the time, but I know I’m not. I wish I was. I know there have been times when I have lost my cool this week and raised my voice. Not cool. I wish I wasn’t like that. I will try to be better.
I read this blog post earlier this week. The truth is no matter, how your mother and I parent, there will always be someone who disagrees with us. No matter what we do, you will grow up to be flawed individuals. You might be awesome flawed individuals, but flawed none-the-less. Parenting is all about trying to do the best you can. Our parents before us tried to do their best. I like to think I turned out pretty awesome. They might look back and wish they had done certain things differently. I know I will and do, but unfortunately you can’t change time. We can try to make amends though and heal hurts.
Sorry for not being super daddy all the time.